The way you do anything is the way you do everything.
When trying to become your best person, it’s a holistic process; the people around you and the places you go and the things you read all become a part of how you define yourself.
So you have to develop a set of standards.
Find your depth, your emotions, what makes you excited and what makes you scared, and what you admire in others. Bring this everywhere with you, and watch your life become something worth talking about.