July 16, 2010

heartbreaking: r.i.p. brandon haskins

The other day I got a mes­sage on Face­book from Chad Oler, some­body I hadn’t met before.

Hugh,

One of our mutual Face­book friends, Bran­don Has­kins, was mur­de­red yes­ter­day — shot to death by his step father in Troy, Ohio. His last Face­book post was just a cou­ple of hours before it hap­pe­ned… he pos­ted your dra­wing, ‘Life is too short not to do something that mat­ters’. I am a small screen prin­ter and have been asked by one of his friends to print a t-shirt for other friends and family with some kind words and, if pos­si­ble, you art. No pro­fit will be made and there will be abso­lu­tely no self-promotion on my part. Is it possible?

Thank you.

Chad Oler

So of course, I let Chad go ahead and make the t-shirt design (see above). On the other side of the shirt are prin­ted the words, “Grace Hap­pens”, which is a lovely little sentiment.

I hadn’t really met Bran­don before, either, other than let­ting him friend me on Face­book. And now he’s gone; he was only 23 years old. What a truly heart­brea­king story.

My dee­pest con­do­len­ces to his family.

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13 Responses to “heartbreaking: r.i.p. brandon haskins”

  1. Richie Allen says:

    Heard about this a cou­ple days ago. So sad. He was the Chief Crea­tive Offi­cer at Clay­Brid­ges Publishing. Appa­rently such a crea­tive guy, great poten­tial, doing something he loved.

    Life is indeed way too short to do otherwise.

    Here’s the press release from his publishing com­pany after his death.
    http://www.claybridgespublishing.com/apps/blog/show/4219959

  2. Kirsty Hall says:

    Oh no, how horri­ble, that poor young man.

  3. Steve Robillard says:

    Hugh,

    A class act as usual.

    Thank you

  4. what does family mean in this case? he was mur­de­red by his step father… sad story

  5. Charles Valerio says:

    I didn’t know Bran­don but I stop­ped by his face­book page today and there’s so much words of love exchan­ged bet­ween friends and family. It’s very sad­de­ning and like you said hugh, heart­brea­king. Very sad to hear that someone so young, crea­tive, and full of life can leave really bad con­di­tions. Rest in Peace Brandon.

  6. This is such a tra­gic loss :( I didn’t know Bran­don but just visi­ted his Face­book page after rea­ding this post. My dee­pest con­do­len­ces to Brandon’s loved ones.

    For someone who loved peo­ple and life so much, it is heart­brea­king that Bran­don became a vic­tim of such terri­ble vio­lence. I am really glad to know that his last Face­book post was so meaningful.

    Your cartoon’s mes­sage is time­less Hugh and in con­text, is inc­re­dibly profound.

  7. Sarah says:

    I was touched and horri­fied by this story. 23 is far too young to die and by such vio­lent means.
    I send his family and friends my thoughts and condolences.

  8. Jessie says:

    Hugh, I only recently star­ted follo­wing you and am totally ena­mo­red of your crea­ti­vity and character.

    That you were at least able to touch this ama­zing person’s life in some way before his tra­gic pas­sing is a bles­sing of sorts…

    …love and con­do­len­ces to those who knew and loved Bran­don. May he be in an even bet­ter place than it sounds like he was here with us.

  9. Hi Hugh! I’ve been unplug­ged for months. Rechar­ged and now ready to dive back in.

    To do that, the first thing I wan­ted to do was check in on you and get a good laugh to start my week. (which I did)…

    Then I find this post and my eyes fill up with tears. This is tra­gic beyond words.

    Brandon’s loved ones are in my thoughts and pra­yers. I appre­ciate you sha­ring this with us.

  10. This mor­ning I recei­ved your email about the spi­ri­tual jour­ney lon­ging to be taken.

    I believe we are all on each others jour­neys and whether we choose to face it or not we have the choice as to how we affect others each day.

    We we think, create, dis­tri­bute MATTERS!!

    Many years ago a boss hel­ped me see that as a power­ful crea­tive force, I have res­pon­si­bi­lity. She com­pe­lled me to be cons­cious of the affect I have on the world around me and to be at choice was my grea­test opportunity.

    Today as a wri­ter, coach, moti­va­tio­nal spea­ker and spi­ri­tual see­ker, I am aware of the actions I take and the poten­tial out­co­mes. While I often have no idea of the rip­ples, I am often astoun­ded at the pla­ces God puts me in and the peo­ple he surrounds me with.

    I salute cons­cious­ness and taking responsibility!

    Bles­sings dear man!

  11. Keith Haskins says:

    I am Brandon’s father. Your art and Brandon’s post did make an impact and he did leave a legacy.…although his life was short he did live it to the fullest..His “crea­tive” was just starting…Thank you for the use of your work…

  12. Edvigia says:

    Hey, Hugh,

    Sure, the story is sad, heart­brea­king and I am sorry for the ones who loved him.
    I do, howe­ver have to say I am impres­sed by another thing. Chad Oler asked your per­mis­sion to use your work… I find that ama­zing. This just does not hap­pen any­more… I know for sure that the peo­ple res­pec­ting another one’s work is rare and unde­ra­pre­cia­ted…
    So my res­pect goes to Chad for asking and to you for giving :)
    [you will have to excuse my spe­lling, not my strog point]

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