April 20, 2010

building bridges between aspiration and consummation

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[Today’s guest post comes from Brian Solis, author of a new book that I’m currently rea­ding, “Engage!”]

Buil­ding Brid­ges Bet­ween Aspi­ra­tion and Consummation

Seve­ral years ago, I was re-introduced to a famous quote. While I had long for­got­ten the words, I believe that they had sub­cons­ciously ins­pi­red me. I was much youn­ger when they ini­tially tes­ted my awa­re­ness. For me, and of course, simi­lar to almost everything I learn, it took seve­ral appea­ran­ces to per­meate the thin­ning fil­ters of my atten­tion and focus, ulti­ma­tely ear­ning per­ma­nent resi­dence in my mind and heart. And con­se­quently, it now ser­ves us my gui­ding man­tra for all that I do today.

“Life isn’t about fin­ding your­self, life is about crea­ting your­self.” — George Ber­nard Shaw

Hugh’s maxim, “Remem­ber who you are…” aligns with Shaw’s words and the pier­cing moral within each mes­sage, is the aide-mémoire of the expe­rien­ces that moved and ins­pi­red us over the years and the hopes that each engen­de­red. They define who we are and they’re the catalysts that trig­ger new oppor­tu­ni­ties and experiences.

It’s the remem­brance and the appli­ca­tion to who we are that beco­mes poig­nant. Remem­be­ring who you are ser­ves as a his­tory les­son as the state of “you” is the result of your past fin­ding its place in the pre­sent. It is the future that is not yet writ­ten and without aspi­ra­tion, ambi­tion has nothing to fuel.

Unders­tan­ding how we got to this place at this time is pre­di­ca­ted by our actions as they were influen­ced by the events that touched us. Ergo, our aspi­ra­tion is a deli­be­rate state of inten­tion and the dis­tance defi­ning our jour­ney is mea­su­red by the actions that move hope and vision toward exis­tence and pro­pe­lled by cons­cious acti­vity and pur­pose. It’s the dif­fe­rence bet­ween dreaming…and brin­ging dreams to life.

Les­sons are the sce­nery that surrounds our jour­ney and this is a trip best appre­cia­ted with eyes, minds, and hearts, wide open.

The distance between who I am and who I want to be...

A good friend intro­du­ced me to the con­cept of Be, Do, Get…and I’ve since woven these words and the gover­ning metho­do­logy into the hall­mark of all that ins­pi­res me. The ideas and les­sons that emerge through the dis­co­very of ans­we­ring the follo­wing ques­tions serve as an ever­las­ting sense of rene­wal of my per­so­nal mis­sion and purpose.

What do I want to be?

Why?

How will I get there?

What’s wor­king against me right now?

What cha­llen­ges face me today and tomorrow?

How will I know when I get there and what is the reward for reaching my destination?

What is the oppor­tu­nity cost of this ambi­tion over others?

Once I dis­co­ver and con­firm who I want to be…I then do the things…that ulti­ma­tely empo­wer me to get to where I envi­sio­ned. The entire sequence is con­nec­ted through dis­co­very and action.

Again, life isn’t as much about fin­ding your­self as it is crea­ting yourself.

I believe that the dis­tance bet­ween who I am and who I want to be is sepa­ra­ted only by my actions and words. And defi­ning who I want to be should remain in a per­pe­tual state of aspi­ra­tion rewar­ded through accom­plish­ments and miles­to­nes inten­tio­nally intro­du­ced to trans­form the illu­sion of pro­gress to a cons­tant state of realization.

Remem­ber who you are…

[The “Remem­ber Who You Are” archive is here.]

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11 Responses to “building bridges between aspiration and consummation”

  1. Dave Doolin says:

    “I believe that the dis­tance bet­ween who I am and who I want to be is sepa­ra­ted only by my actions and words.”

    And without a clear vision, anything we do is no bet­ter than Brow­nian motion.

  2. Sully says:

    Wow, another great guest post and another book I will have to read. Thanks

  3. […] buil­ding brid­ges bet­ween aspi­ra­tion and con­sum­ma­tion | gaping­void In Unca­te­go­ri­zed on April 20, 2010 at 13:06 via gapingvoid.com […]

  4. […] April 20, 2010 at 6:30 pm (Unca­te­go­ri­zed) “Life isn’t about fin­ding your­self, life is about crea­ting yourself.” – George Ber­nard Shaw via gapingvoid.com […]

  5. […] I was remin­ded in a recent guest post on Gaping Void by Brian […]

  6. Paul says:

    A friend of mine has the Shaw quote on his fridge. I found it ins­pi­ra­tio­nal, but agree that the “do” part is critical.

  7. […] buil­ding brid­ges bet­ween aspi­ra­tion and con­sum­ma­tion (gapingvoid.com) […]

  8. You had me at:

    “For me, and of course, simi­lar to almost everything I learn, it took seve­ral appea­ran­ces to per­meate the thin­ning fil­ters of my atten­tion and focus, ulti­ma­tely ear­ning per­ma­nent resi­dence in my mind and heart. And con­se­quently, it now ser­ves us my gui­ding man­tra for all that I do today.”

  9. […] work I admire, follow, and res­pect. When he asked me to con­tri­bute a post for his evo­ca­tive “Remem­ber Who You Are” series, I responded […]

  10. Gaye Crispin says:

    What other way is there?
    Thank you, a great read.

  11. Bruce Lynn says:

    Just stum­bled upon this old piece sur­fing some gaping­void. I too love the Shaw quote. It reminds me of a something my father, a clergy­man, has in his wed­ding ser­vi­ces (inc­lu­ding mine when he married Lori and I)…‘It’s not about fin­ding the right per­son, it’s about being the right person.’

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