“the intense longing”

This one is called “The Intense Lon­ging”. The latest from the “Moles­kine” series [Click here to enlarge etc].

Fri­day night I was in Marfa, hea­ring my favo­rite local band, The Dood­lin’ Hog­wa­llops, play a gig at Padre’s. Because I was dri­ving, I wasn’t drin­king any alcohol, so I just stuck to black cof­fee the whole night.

Once the caf­feine star­ted kic­king in I got out my dra­wing pen…

“Lon­ging” is a lovely idea to wrestle with, because from the moment we become sen­tient beings, our lives are utterly satu­ra­ted with it.

The lon­ging to be clo­ser to God. The lon­ging to be clo­ser to Nature. The lon­ging to feel more alive. The lon­ging to love and to feel loved. The lon­ging for truth, beauty, good­ness, sex, expe­rience, poetry, art, strength, music, friendship, family, affec­tion, desire, magic, power, laugh­ter, joy, mea­ning, resonance…

It never goes away, no mat­ter how smart, sexy, witty or suc­cess­ful we become. It’s the broth we spend our whole lives ste­wing in: The lon­ging to touch that which can never be touched.

Which is why I think it”s a REALLY good idea try to express it somehow, even if the results will be inva­riably mixed…

Comments

  1. Iso­la­ted within the island of our own sen­tience, even when surroun­ded by a billion other souls.

    Lon­ging is the fee­ling in your lungs you expe­rience at the apex of the inhale, when you wish you could just squeeze a little bit more oxy­gen into those inter­nal balloons.

  2. You just cran­ked my ‘lon­ging’ dial up to 11. I love you for that. I think. Sort of a pain­ful ines­ca­pa­ble beauty, isn’t it.

  3. Very nice, Hugh. I guess when we long to be exactly where we are in the pre­sent moment, we feel peace and expe­rience serenity?

    Con­gra­tu­la­tions on the Texas Social Media Award. Well deserved!

  4. Love. Love. Love. (And yes, the expres­sion the­reof is good, even though results are always mixed.)

  5. You cap­tu­red “lon­ging” per­fectly — a little chao­tic, busy,indefinable and deeply lonely at the core. I think lon­ging, and I our ina­bi­lity to be truly satis­fied (satia­ted) in the moment (and beyond), is what makes the human world go round. We don’t stop stri­ving and we never quite make it — so we strive some more.

  6. I think we all live with this lon­ging. Without it, we lose a since of pur­pose, hope and expec­ta­tion. Iro­ni­cally, this lon­ging never stops. Even when satis­fied, it con­ti­nues to for something more; something dif­fe­rent; something unique.

    What is so intri­guing about this lon­ging is that with all of our attempts to define it, we always seem to come up short; speech­less. I think the lon­ging inside of us wasn’t meant to be defi­ned, but expe­rien­ced. I think of it almost as a guide. Something that can lead to adven­ture, risk, and discovery.

    I’m lear­ning to embrace the lon­ging. It keeps me hungry, explo­ra­tive, and curious.

  7. The great entre­pre­neur, Red McCombs, at 82 years old, said it best in his key­note speech at Rise Aus­tin, “We all want the same thing in life; time.”

    And time is what we make of it. Do we sit around grum­bling about what we shoulda/woulda/coulda done, or do we get off our asses and put one foot in front of the other to dis­co­ver what we are lon­ging for?

    If you wait to figure out just exactly what it is that you are lon­ging for, you’ll be was­ting that that’s most valua­ble… what you’ll never ever be able to replace; time.

    And get ready to be com­for­ta­ble with fai­lure, because if you aren’t fai­ling, you’re not moving forward.

  8. loved this! For me, add the lon­ging to con­nect, the lon­ging to be heard and the lon­ging for beauty.

  9. yes ! it’s very good
    that’s what we need to learn and share

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