http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/ "cartoons drawn on the back of business cards" Sat, 21 Nov 2009 22:18:51 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15168 mAz Mon, 30 Oct 2006 21:06:04 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15168 Oh that is sooooooooooo true! FAB! Oh that is sooooooooooo true! FAB!

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15167 Jason Mon, 23 Oct 2006 22:54:11 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15167 Ditto to Paul. Some people just put it all out there... as a way of filtering out "friends" who would be disappointed if they found this stuff out later. Ditto to Paul. Some people just put it all out there… as a way of filtering out “friends” who would be disappointed if they found this stuff out later.

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15166 Paul Mon, 23 Oct 2006 21:25:10 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15166 Can't say I particularly enjoyed this one - it is a bti close to home, but I felt compelled to write something anyway. I think there is a degree of understanding required here, rather than outright criticism. You know, many people like Roger act like this because they are scared. Scared of having failed, scared of previously experienced terrible consequences, scared of having the event that caused them so much pain happen again. Being a victim is a way of preventing yourself being put in the situation where the pain can come back. A little bit of understanding is required here...even the online world is not 2-D. Can’t say I particularly enjoyed this one — it is a bti close to home, but I felt compelled to write something anyway.
I think there is a degree of understanding required here, rather than outright criticism.
You know, many people like Roger act like this because they are scared. Scared of having failed, scared of previously experienced terrible consequences, scared of having the event that caused them so much pain happen again.
Being a victim is a way of preventing yourself being put in the situation where the pain can come back.
A little bit of understanding is required here…even the online world is not 2-D.

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15165 in2deep Mon, 23 Oct 2006 19:48:11 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15165 hahaha i loooovve your website! looove looovvveee loovveee it! hahaha i loooovve your website! looove looovvveee loovveee it!

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15164 Adri Mon, 23 Oct 2006 15:20:10 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15164 Yeap! I know some people like Roger, I'm glad I'm not one of them! =) I'm sad for them... =( Yeap!
I know some people like Roger,
I’m glad I’m not one of them! =)
I’m sad for them… =(

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15163 Levi Mon, 23 Oct 2006 13:07:19 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15163 The one with the loudest always gets the most attention. The one with the loudest always gets the most attention.

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15162 Ross Hill Mon, 23 Oct 2006 08:29:45 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15162 I have met many too. Not fun :) I have met many too. Not fun

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15161 Sheamus Mon, 23 Oct 2006 04:42:10 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15161 Ooh... I like the alcohol bit! Ooh… I like the alcohol bit!

]]> http://gapingvoid.com/2006/10/22/victim-219/comment-page-1/#comment-15160 thierry Sun, 22 Oct 2006 18:51:57 +0000 http://gapingvoid.com/?p=3177#comment-15160 I have met many of those people. But quickly they become people you want to avoid to meet really interesting people instead. thierry (from France) I have met many of those people.
But quickly they become people you want to avoid to meet really interesting people instead.
thierry (from France)

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