April 30, 2005

twentysomething male fantasy movies

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My favo­rite “film chick”, Cynthia Rock­well wri­tes won­der­fully about “Twenty­so­mething male fan­tasy movies.”

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4 Responses to “twentysomething male fantasy movies”

  1. Hm, for­tu­na­tely I’ve never seen a movie that’s a poor twentysomething-male’s fan­tasy, so I can’t com­plain I guess.
    I agree with Cynthia, though, that girls should just not bother to hang out with totally care-about-nothing pricks. Pretty girls still like to hang out with jerks, though (jerks is not = losers), mostly becaues these jerks are good at telling these girls how cool and cute they are (and it’s the truth), and becaues the jerks may not have much brain and aren’t crea­tive, but they have a mighty brawn usually.
    The brawn is stron­ger than the brain, who would’ve thought it? Must have been a brain-person.

  2. Matt says:

    What a coin­ci­dence. I wrote about this exact same thing, ins­pi­red as you were by Cynthia, just yes­ter­day:
    http://esotericrabbit.blogspot.com/2005_04_01_esotericrabbit_archive.html#111482038270557505
    I love your site, by the way, Hugh.

  3. Patrick says:

    “The sad thing is that most of us have had boy­friends like this in the past, and we con­ti­nue to be encou­ra­ged to do so by films like these, which teach us that if we are just patient and loving enough, the guy will come around.”
    I didn’t see the movie. Art (term used loo­sely) imi­ta­ting life? Life imi­ta­ting art? Many ste­reoty­pes exsist because there is often a grain of truth in them. I know too many women who will take the loser/abuser/jerk over the decent guy every­time. Repea­tedly. Exci­ted by the badboy/toughguy/self-absorbed image, they fail time and time again to see that often, what you see is what you get. Who in their right mind would follow advice or encou­ra­ge­ment doled out by the latest movie, maga­zine, pop song, etc? Sadly, the majo­rity of the popu­lace of this country. It would be a crime if anyone actually thought for him­self, took action, and then accep­ted res­pon­si­bi­lity for that action.

  4. q20 says:

    I unders­tand the 20-something movie thing, but PLEASE someone explain this–
    who’s fan­tasy is repre­sen­ted by the ‘fat-guy/skinny-wife’ sit­coms that run on the big 3 net­works?
    I’ve only ever seen the trai­lers for these shows, but there is no way in hell that george lopez, the fat ass UPS dri­ver from queens, jim belushi and george cos­tanza would ever score wives like that.
    just once i want to hear the guy say “honey, you’re such a hot­tie, I’m glad you sett­led for the fat sen­si­tive alcoho­lic with the 35K a year job in the suburbs”
    oh geez, i just ans­we­red my own ques­tion didn’t I.….